Please Pass on as a Blue Ribbon !

Get this email from my friend.........Thanks As. Just want to share !

THIS IS PRETTY GUT WRENCHING I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE COULD DO THESE THINGS

This is so terrible,I won't tell you what I would do to parent like this!!
Let's Help Stop This !!

Please be AWARE that there are some UPSETTING PICTURES in this email.

My name is Sarah I am three, my eyes are swollen I cannot see .

I must be stupid, I must be bad, what else could have made my daddy so mad?

I wish I were better, I wish I weren't ugly, then maybe my Mommy would still want to hug me.

I can't speak at all, I can't do a wrong or else I'm locked up all the day long.

When I awake I'm all alone the house is dark my folks aren't home.

When my Mommy does come I'll try and be nice, so maybe I'll get just one whipping tonight. Don't make a sound! I just heard a car my daddy is back from Charlie's Bar.

I hear him curse my name he calls I press myself against the wall.

I try and hide from his evil eyes I'm so afraid now I'm starting to cry.

He finds me weeping he shouts ugly words, he says its my fault that he suffers at work.

He slaps me and hits me and yells at me more, I finally get free and I run for the door.

He's already locked it and I start to bawl, he takes me and throws me against the hard wall.

I fall to the floor with my bones nearly broken, and my daddy continues with more bad words spoken.

'I'm sorry!'

I scream but its now much too late his face has been twisted into unimaginable hate. The hurt and the pain again and again oh please God, have mercy! oh please let it end!

And he finally stops and heads for the door, while I lay there motionless sprawled on the floor.

My name is Sarah and I am three, but tonight my daddy murdered me.

There are thousands of kids out there just like Sarah. And you can help.

It sickens me to my soul, and if you just read this and don't pass it on I pray for your forgiveness, because you would have to be one heartless person to not be affected by this email. And because you are affected, do something about it!! So all I am asking you to do is take some time to send this on and acknowledge that this stuff does happen, and that people like her dad do live in our society , and pray for child abuse to wither out and die, but also pray for the safety of our youth.

Please pass this poem on as a Blue Ribbon Against Child Abuse because, as crazy as it might sound, it might just.

Nauzubillah, semoga kita semua di jauhkan dari kekhilafan seperti ini. Anak2 adalah amanah paling berharga pada kedua ibu bapa.

I'M IN THE 93% - YOU?

I'm in the 93%

Forwarded by email ...

There was a little boy visiting his grandparents on their farm. He was given a slingshot to play with out in the woods. He practised in the woods, but he could never hit the target. Getting a little discouraged, he headed back for dinner.

As he was walking back he saw Grandma's pet duck. Just out of impulse, he let the slingshot fly, hit the duck square in the head and killed it. He was shocked and grieved! In a panic, he hid the dead duck in the wood pile, only to see his sister watching!

Fatima had seen it all, but she said nothing. After lunch the next day Grandma said, ' Fatima , let's wash the dishes.' But Fatima said, 'Grandma, Ahmed told me he wanted to help in the kitchen.' Then she whispered to him, 'Remember the duck?' So Ahmed did the dishes.

Later that day, Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing and Grandma said, 'I'm sorry but I need Fatima to help make supper.' Fatima just smiled and said, 'Well, that's all right because Ahmed told me he wanted to help.' She whispered again, 'Remember the duck?' So Fatima went fishing and Ahmed stayed to help.

After several days of Ahmed doing both his chores and Fatima 's, he finally couldn't stand it any longer.

He came to Grandma and confessed that he had killed the duck. Grandma knelt down, gave him a hug and said, 'Sweetheart, I know. You see, I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing, but because I love you, I forgave you. I was just wondering how long you would let Fatima make a slave of you.'

Thought for the day and every day thereafter?

Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done... and the devil keeps throwing it up in your face (lying, cheating, debt, fear, bad habits, hatred, anger, bitterness, etc.)...whatever it is...You need to know that Allah was standing at the window and He saw the whole thing. He has seen your whole life. He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven.

He's just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you.

The great thing about Allah is that when you ask for forgiveness, He not only forgives you, but He loves you. It is by Allah's grace and mercy that we are saved.

Go ahead and make a difference in someone's life today. Share this with a friend and always remember: Allah is at the window!

If you are one of the 93% who will stand up for Him, forward this with the title 'I'm in the 93%'.

Would you believe 7% of people won't forward this?

SUBHANALLAH.

Make a difference??

63 PETUA BAHAGIA

Just nak share sedikit info yg zana ambil dari berita Harian Metro - 20 Nov 2008 (khamis)

Tanpa sebuah persefahaman, tidak mungkin istana yg dibina menemui kebahagiaan sebagaimana diharapkan. Biar berjuta halangan merentangi namun jika tersurat kasih dan sayang dua insan berkenaa, pasti ia menemukan ketulusan yg abadi.

Dalam melayari rumahtangga berdua, pasti byk onak terpaksa dilalui. Hanya mereka yg kuat, tabah dan mampu mendepani segalanya bakal menjulang kebahagiaan. Perunding motivasi & keluarga, Datuk Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah memberi 63 petua yang boleh dijadikan amalan pasangan bercinta atau mereka yang melayari rumah tangga :

1) doa yg berterusan
2) patuh ajaran agama
3) murah dgn pujian
4) murah dgn khidmat
5) murah dengan belaian kasih sayang
6) murah dengan sentuhan
7) mencari kebaikan pasangan
8) cari masa berkomunikasi, berbual @ bergurau senda
9) cari kebaikan dan pembaikan diri daripada setiap pertengkaran
10) menghormati had, sempadan atau hal peribadi pasangan
11) menilai diri daripada perspektif pasangan
12) berfikiran terbuka - boleh tegur menegur
13) berani mengambil risiko emosi - tegur/perubahan/berpisah sementara
14) menilai & memberi keutamaan dalam kehidupan
15) tolak ansur
16) menghormati dan mengambil kira "gerak batin" (intuition) perempuan
17) tidak mengejar kebendaan semata-mata
18) sedar bahawa perselisihan faham kadangkala tidak boleh dielakkan
19) mengubah diri untuk merangsang perubahan pada pasangan
20) sanggup berkorban buat pasangan
21) menghormati pasangan
22) berasa amat beruntung (dan nyatakan) mendapat pasangan yg ada
23) perhubungan seksual yang sihat dan diredhai
24) menghormati perbezaan dalam diri pasangan
25) sentiasa bermaafan sebelum tidur
26) sentiasa bersangka baik terhadap masa depan
27) meletakkan hak kepada pasangan
28) tidak menjadi hamba kepada pasangan
29) berubah secara kecil-kecilan utk meningkatkan kebahagiaan
30) mengawal marah. Buat perjanjian
31) mencari penyelesaian dalam situasi "menang-menang'
32) muhasabah hubugnan untuk mencari punca masalah
33) menghormati sifat semula jadi pasangan
34) memahami peranan "pasangan"
35) hubungan perasaan sesama pasangan
36) jangan simpan ketidakpuasan hati, sedih, marah atau benci dalam hati
37) bentuk kod kasih sayang dan anda berdua saja yg tahu
38) sengaja merancang utnuk membaiki hubungan suami isteri
39) tujuk kali puji dan satu teguran
40) sebut I LOVE U sepanjang masa
41) banyakkan bergurau dan bermesra
42) sentiasa berterus terang
43) beri masa untuk perubahan berlaku - sabar
44) elakkan berdebat untuk mencari kebenaran
45) elakkan salah pasangan
46) cari titik pertemuan
47) selesaikan masalah hari ini pada hari ini jugak - tidak bertangguh
48) lebih banyak memberi daripada menerima
49) minta nasihat, pandangan atau maklumbalas daripada pasangan
50) sentiasa bersemangat - bangun tidur, pergi kerja, balik kerja & sebagainyer
51) seimbangkan hubungan dari segi :-
a) mental, pendidikan & ilmu
b) emosi
c) fizikal & ekonomi
d) sosial
e) spiritual
52) jangan berjauhan terlalu lama (kecuali terpaksa)
53) tidak terlalu mengongkong
54) tidak bertindak bersendirian
55) memberi peluang untuk berbeza :
a) pendapat @ pandangan
b) hobi
c) kegemaran
d) makanan
e) cita rasa
f) warna pilihan dan pelbagai
56) humor atau lawak dari semasa ke semasa
57) minta bantuan untuk memecahkan kitaran negatif
58) berwawasan dan berpandangan ke depan (tidak terjebak dgn masalah semasa)
59) tidak meminta yg bukan-bukan
60) bentuk undang-undang atau peraturan dalam rumahtangan
61) mencari kelainan dan perubahan positif
62) elakkan mendera pasangan dengan apa cara sekalipun
63) redha, syukur dan tawakal kepada ALLAH s.w.t